What would I want my children to be when they grow up?
I would like to reserve this post as my 1st entry to THE 5th edition of the Pinoy Parenting Blog Carnival (PPBC). and the topic is about - What would you like your children to be when they grow up, and why? This is being hosted now by Angel of Happy Family Matters. In case you do not know, this carnival was initiated by Doc Joey of The Working Mom and has been hosting the past four editions, and was joined by numerous Pinoy Parents.
What would I want my children to be when they grow up?
This question crops up to every parents mind especially when our children were young and there are signs we are seeing that would tend to go in that direction. My friend’s son is fond of playing with dolls so he is bracing himself for his son to take up Beauty and culture, and own a beauty parlor someday. Funny isn’t it?
My 3 year old nephew has a very strong arm for his age that is why my children often times joke about that we could train him early on as a boxer and we would act as his Manager. He could be another Manny Pacquaio in the making.
Of course every parent would love to see their children become successful in their chosen career. I don’t impose on my children what they should take up in College.
My wife and I are trying our best to talk with them what are their future plans, their favorite subjects or anything that could lead us for better assessment that would lead to their future career.
My 2nd eldest daughter is now on her 4th year as a Nursing student while my 3rd child now is on his 3rdyear of Marine transportation. All of them decided for themselves and are happy and contended about their grades. My youngest son who is on his 3rd year of high school would love to take up computer related education such as programming but have second thoughts because he is seeing his older sister quite successful in her work as a web designer. My youngest daughter who is in her grade 6 of elementary education wants to finish HRM or to become a President of this country. Wow, a tall order, I should say.
I have known a lot of parents who imposed their will on their children on what course to take up in their College education. Being a good children that they are they obeyed their parent’s wishes only to suffer later on in their life. Some were not able to finish their studies while other opted to shift courses a number of times until they finally find the right study that suit their personality. The end result is a waste of time, money and resources for both parent and child.
Of course having a college education alone is not a guarantee that they would become successful in life because we have seen a lot of school drop outs who become Billionaires. A lot of college graduate who are jobless. Some weren’t able to use their diploma and grab any available job just to earn a living.
All I want for them is to be a responsible, productive God fearing citizen of this country.
What ever come out of my children, I would fully support them in any way I can, all the way.
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July 5th, 2008 at 5:35 am
What do I want my children to be when they grow up?
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July 5th, 2008 at 7:11 am
Hello, Daddy Mon. Thank you so much for joining this round of the PPBC :).
You are right, our kids should choose their own destiny but we should always be there to support them all the way.
July 5th, 2008 at 10:22 am
This is such a wonderful and very inspirational entry. I can see a better future for your children having a good and responsible father like you.
Can’t wait to see your comment on my post with a link to this post. I am pretty sure this will be among those that will be frequently read.
By the way, I also have finished my entry and thanks for participating.
Congrats!
July 5th, 2008 at 6:38 pm
What you want your children to be is irrelevant, what they want to be is paramount. All you can do is support them in whatever they choose to do with their life, whether you agree with it or not.
As to being a “… responsible, productive, and God Fearing citizen…” Why would you wish that your children live in fear? Productive and responsible I’ll give you, but let them be so on their own terms and without having to be coerced and threatened into it by fear of something which you believe (and have no doubt indoctrinated them to believe also). Using such coercion belittles them and may even restrict their potential.
July 6th, 2008 at 6:44 am
Jeff - Yes, their happiness in our ultimate goal in life. I really like your post about “Why is junk food so addictive”. Thank you for your time.
Doc Joey - Thank you for your warm welcome. As they say “there is always a first time for everything”. I am a little bit scared in joining your PPBC because I am not a prolific writer like the rest of the member. I just gave it a try.
Guardian Angel - Thank you for the encouragement and support. By the way, I can’t make a comment on your blog. I am not sure if it is my computer problem or what?
Mandrill - Hello Keith, Thank you for your comment. I really appreciate reading your thoughts. I spend a few minutes reading your blog especially the topic about Religion. I intend to visit it more often. I would not argue with your beliefs but we could co-exist isn’t it?
July 15th, 2008 at 4:06 pm
Hi,
Finally, the summary of PPBC 5th edition has been posted.
Thanks for joining.
http://tinyurl.com/5e67c6
July 19th, 2008 at 5:29 pm
jz guide them and make sure that they’ll grow up with good bearing and values…
July 19th, 2008 at 9:45 pm
Angel - Thanks.Congratulation for a job well done in hosting the 5th PPBC.
glaiyze - Thank you for your comment. Hopefully I could accomplished that task. Oh, read your post about war against viruses. Nicely written piece