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Dashing Smiles- 1st Anniversary Contest

Sunday, September 7th, 2008

Mommy Ruby had sent me message via YM telling me about Dashing Smiles 1st Anniversary Contest.
The rules are simple so i had copied and paste it here:

To qualify, just follow these simple rules.

1. Blog about this contest. Couple of sentences will do and at the bottom of your entry, please don’t forget to list down my blogs included the sponsor(s) and link them to its individual URL’s.

2. Once you have posted your entry in your blog please let me know by leaving a comment on this entry.

3. 1 post earns one entry…the more blogs you have the more chances of winning

4. All entries must be posted by Sept. 14th at 10:00PM Eastern Time. I will announce the winner on Sept. 15th (Carlotaonline 1st Anniversary).

Here are the prices:

  • 1 major price (brand NEW in the BOX) a Merkury Innovations (White) Docking Station, Speaker System, Clock Radio for Apple iPod.
  • For the major price, since I can’t ship it internationally a $15 will be deposited direct to your PayPal Account.
  • 1 winner of 1 year domain
  • 1 winner of customize layout (blogger platform)
  • 3 winners of 1,000 EC credit (sponsored by ms Julia-Aquino and Pinay Mommy Online)
  • 11 winners of 500 EC credit  (sponsored by ms. Angel and mommy Ruby of Pinay Mommy Online)


Dashing Smiles | Dashing Beauty | myWeb-Blog Designs | The Love of Pixels | Lovely Pink | my Daily Sunset | Hobby and Such by Carlota | my Digi’s Creations | Monkey Reach to the Top | Kharlota dot com | Live Love Pink

Sponsored by:
Julia-Aquino | Carlson Clan | Fish Hook and More | Catanico | Pinay Mommy Online | Mommy Earns Money Online | Blessings and Beyond | OnlineBiz and Resources | Lourdes’ Mia | Digital Life Scraps

There you go, come and join the fun.
Join now! Now na…!

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I love your Blog!

Friday, September 5th, 2008

This blog got an award! It’s really nice to get award from two fellow blogger,   One came from Maria of

Life’s sweets and spices last  August  29,2008  Angel of Humane Blogging Tips this September 3, 2008.

I decided to do this meme now.

The rules of the award are:
1. The winner can put the logo on his/her blog.
2. Link the person you received your award from.
3. Nominate at least 7 other blogs.
4. Put links of those blogs on yours.
5. Leave a message on the blogs that you’ve nominated.

And the Winners are:

1.Jean of What you see is what you get

2.Mommy Ruby of Pinay mommy Online

3.Jessie of What Have You

4.Sweetpea of Funky Mommy

5.joanjoyce of joanjoyce.com

6.Melai of Pusakay

7.Jeff of Marriage and Beyond

So here it is ladies and gentleman.

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How Do I discipline my kids?

Saturday, August 30th, 2008

I have a two year old nephew that is so cute and adorable but wait tell he ask or want something and failed to get it, he would throw a tantrum that would surely ruin your day. He would throw at you anything he can get hold of if he is mad at you.

I happened to witness one such incident that made me shake my head in disbelief especially upon seeing my sister -in-law give in to her child’s demand. Maybe, my sister-in-law never realizes at this time that she is spoiling her son.

I believe that the first seven years of a child is important in teaching them the right attitude and discipline. This formative years of their life is essential because they will carry them in their growing up years.

What my children needs I buy for them, but for what they want they have to save or work hard to achieve it.
Of course there are different parenting styles of disciplining our children. What works for me might not work for others.

I can honestly say that I had tried different approaches to all of my 5 children. Each one had a distinct individuality and therefore requires different approach. Most of the times they understood so it means lesser dialogue while there are times that they tend to question my decision. When this happened, I would call a meeting requiring all family members to be present. An open forum would follow after the problem was discussed. I have made it a point never to bring back past mistakes and focused on the lesson learned in an incident. This way, the problem would never happen again.

Of course like all children, there are times when they violated our rules. The penalty depends on the family decision. If it is about violation on their computer playing time, he/ she forfeit their scheduled time or suspended for 1 playing day. Great isn’t it? There are times I have to put my put down.

One time (at home) when I am off from work, my Brother-in-law come to our house reeking of liquor and wanted me to reprimand my children for not cleaning up our house. He told me a lot of things which in my opinion is already intruding to our family life.

I politely told him that when I am home I don’t want to reprimand my children regarding trivial matter because this only happens once a week (unless it is something about our house rules). I want to enjoy their company without any hassle. I don’t react about other people disciplining our children. The only problem is when they try to hurt them, that is another matter and I would not permit that to happen.

In our family, I am the disciplinarian as what I written here: I am a disciplinarian but “cool” Daddy!

I am reserving this post for the 7th PPBC Pinoy Parenting Blog Carnival being hosted by The working Mom

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Be wary of hiring “Maid”

Saturday, August 23rd, 2008

In today’s news, both the Philippines Daily Inquirer (`Maid` in robbery-`poisoning` nabbed) and Philippine Star (2 women nabbed for poisoning Tsinoy family) carry news story about the arrested maid who poisoned household members to be able to rob their emplyer of valuables and cash.
The modus operandi is for one syndicate member to befriend security guards and asked them to recommend her to people looking for housemaid.
Once employed, she would put poison in the drinks or food of household members who are left at home. Then the robbery would take place.
The suspect, Anamie Livrando, 30 years old and native of Cebu was arrested following a tip from people who saw on television an artist sketch and photo of the suspect caught by a closed circuit television camera by one of the victim.
Hopefully this kind of people would rot in jail. Or if possible, poison her too to give her a dose of her own medicine. Oh, I am only joking though!
What will this people with criminal mind would think of next? Is it really hard nowadays to trust people?
This should serve as a warning for each and every one of us to be wary in hiring of maid. Check and double check their identity or have them secure NBI clearance. It is better to be safe than sorry.

As for me, we have decided long ago (when my wife resigns from her job and decided to take care of our family instead) that we would share responsibilities. (Prior to this decision we have two maids that took care or our daughter and our home.) We scheduled our washing and ironing of clothes including market day. When I am home, it is her off day.
When our children are old enough we taught them simple household work such as sweeping the floor, wiping the table or setting up the table. Then as they grow older the more responsibilities is being taught like cooking, washing and ironing clothes.
My youngest daughter at age 11 then, will never be hungry even left alone because she knows how to cook rice and fry hotdog, egg or even prepare French fries.
Going back to the news report:
For other family that is in real need of maid, kindly share this info for them to be able to cautious in hiring one.

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Justice for Tara Bosch Santelices

Thursday, August 21st, 2008

Got this from my inbox and without second thought, I am sharing with you what Political Observer had written in his blog.The culprit must be brought to justice to answer for his crime.

Blog or spread the message, your help is most needed in our quest for ……..

Justice for Tara Bosch Santelices

If we look at how evil prevail in the realm of politics maybe it is true that Filipinos has been numbed to apathy out of desperation and hopelessness.

While it may be true to some degree in terms of apathy towards politics, the Filipinos in general are a compassionate caring people. Unfortunately there are revolting incidents that makes one doubt if indeed we as a people have been consumed by the numbing display of apathy to the point of losing our compassion and humanity.

Has it been this bad that when we see a victim of violence because said victim was a stranger it does not affect us anymore that we just go about our daily lives ignoring the fatal consequence of our revolting inaction? I am sure if we see our sister, daughter, mother or even a distant acquaintance when we see that she is being assaulted while some may not necessarily ward of the attacker most if not all will heroically risk their lives to save a damsel in distress. There is no doubt that we will definitely do our best even move mountains to rush her into a hospital especially if it was a matter of life or death emergency.

This is not the case in Tara Bosch Santelices incident, a promising creative young woman about to reach her prime and potential on the eve of her 23rd birthday now fighting for her life in a coma in the ICU of Medical City Hospital in Pasig City attached to a respirator machine. A victim of armed robbery shot in the left forehead shattering her skull and dreams of a promising life of creativity as a musical artist lead guitarist of Saffron Speedway and budding Indie film director. Tara Bosch Santelices went to Assumption Antipolo Batch 2003 and Ateneo de Manila University’s graduate Class of 2007, AB Political Science.

The incident is just so agonizingly revolting that it makes one wonder if indeed people have been consumed by morbid coldness akin to modern day savagery of the asphalt jungle seen only in fiction movies yet so surreal and agonizingly happening in real life. Here is a quote from the account of Chito Irigo on the incident:

Tara Santelices, 23 years old graduate of the Ateneo de Manila was shot in a robbery-hold up incident inside a passenger jeep along Felix Ave. Cainta, Rizal. She was on her way home past midnight (August 6, 2008, about 12:30 AM) with a friend coming from a night out on the eve of her 23rd birthday.

Somewhere along a dark stretch of Felix Ave. near Karangalan Village, a man posing as a passenger, pulled a gun and announced a hold-up. The man grabbed Tara’s bag. Instinctively, Tara held on to her bag and in the ensuing struggle, the man shot Tara and hit her on the left side of her forehead. After getting the bag of the others, the man jumped off the passenger jeep. Tara’s companion, who has never been in that situation asked for help from the other passengers, and told the driver to bring them to the nearest hospital, as blood was already spurting out of Tara’s head. But instead of driving speedily to the nearest medical facility, the driver drove as if it was one of his regular trips, even stopping three times to unload a passenger. Of the five or six other passengers, only one bothered to help Tara’s friend carry her. The rest just went about their business as if nothing serious happened. In fact some of the passengers even opted to stop the vehicle for them to get off, wasting precious time for medical attention. The driver eventually took them to a small clinic. But even as Tara’s companion was talking to a medical personnel in that small clinic, the driver drove-off leaving them to look for a taxi to bring Tara to a better equipped hospital. Tara was given the appropriate medical attention only about four hours later. The police went to the hospital to talk to the witness (Tara’s friend) only a day later.

One must be as cold as an unfeeling zombie, an animal monster actually without shame or remorse that has no regard for the sanctity of human life. So irrational and perverted beyond description to see that there are people in this planet so low and revolting to act like these in dire emergency situation.

Why in heavens name did the jeepney driver acted irrationally, has the Cainta Police even bothered to look for the driver for questioning and gather information that will lead to the arrest and prosecution of the cold blooded criminal? Why did the passengers opt to get off their destinations knowing that every second of delay lessens her chances of survival? Or are they so moronic that these passengers would rather be in the comfort of their homes with no remorse whatsoever of the consequence of their stupidity? Criminals will be criminals and you expect them to commit heinous crimes thus you want them apprehended and not wreck havoc on society but “law abiding citizens” acting in this numbing apathy is definitely unacceptable, they are worse than the criminals a shame to all mankind.
This horrific incident really tests our mettle on seeing the innate goodness of man as blogger Kalamnan pointed out:

Faced with these terrible consequences, I find myself questioning the optimistic counsel R left me with. Should the life of a person be taken just so you can feed yourself? Your family? Your whims? What good is there in taking - be it be money or a bag or a laptop… Or the wife of your neighbor… Or a life?

How does that help you? How does that make your existence better? How does that make your reality and your reasons right?

I do not want to relinquish my belief that people are innately good. We are all created in His image, guided by His hand and heart. But please…

Please…
As if this incident is not contemptible enough this GMA News Report came up with this callous title “Robber shoots lady who refused to give up laptop” in looks like a crude attempt at sensationalism that has the effect of unwittingly blaming the victim. A shallow attempt and yet did not even dig deeper on the circumstance after the crime. Was it because this kind of cold numbing apathy is so common that it is not newsworthy enough?

We can let Tara Bosch Santelices and other victims of crime suffer yet another numbing apathy and let her and her family suffer in pain alone or we can do the act now by calling the attention of our lawmakers to enact laws so that tragic event like these do not occur again. We can also call on the law enforcement agencies to step up their investigation and there is a petition that we can sign here.

If you may want to contribute to a fund for Tara’s recovery, here are the details:
Anne Marie F. Santelices, Banco de Oro, SA 2140-062201. For direct cash donations, please proceed to the ICU Waiting Room of the Medical City (Ortigas Avenue, Pasig City). Please look for Joee Mejias or Lila Santelices.

Lastly, please let everyone you know about the plight of Tara Bosch Santelices, by emailing this or writing a blog about it or any other way to raise awareness on the issue of public safety in public transportation, she needs all the support she can get at this point and sometimes miracle do happen when good people wish and pray for her speedy recovery.

For inquiries, please contact Joee Mejias (09228154987) for calls and Jac Ledonio (09167243071) or Myka Francisco (09163695148) for text messages.

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Frozen Shoulder,Exactly how I feel it

Wednesday, August 20th, 2008

I tried to find at Google what my Doctor told me-”Frozen Shoulder” and here is the closes I got-

Source:Wikipedia

Frozen shoulder, medically referred to as adhesive capsulitis, is a disorder in which the shoulder capsule, the connective tissue surrounding the glenohumeral joint of the shoulder, becomes inflamed and stiff, and grows together with abnormal bands of tissue, called adhesions, greatly restricting motion and causing chronic pain.

It has an incidence of 2.4/1000 per year.[1]

Adhesive capsulitis is a painful and disabling condition that often causes great frustration for patients and caregivers due to slow recovery. Movement of the shoulder is severely restricted. Pain is usually constant, worse at night, and along with the restricted movement can make even small tasks impossible. Certain movements can cause sudden onset of tremendous pain and cramping that can last several minutes.

This condition, for which an exact cause is unknown, can last from 5 months to 3 years or more, and is thought in some cases to be caused by injury or trauma to the area. It may also appear for no apparent reason. It is also believed that it may have an autoimmune component, with the body attacking healthy tissue in the shoulder. The condition may also cause chronic inflammation. Adhesions grow between the joints and tissue, greatly restricting motion and causing a number of painful complications. There is also a lack of fluid in the joint, further restricting movement.

In addition to difficulty with everyday tasks, people who suffer from adhesive capsulitis usually experience problems sleeping for extended periods due to pain that is worse at night and restricted movement/positions, resulting in chronic fatigue and other complications. The condition also can lead to depression, pain and problems in the neck and back, as well as damage to the tissue surrounding the area.

There are a number of risk factors for frozen shoulder, including diabetes, stroke, accidents, lung disease, connective tissue disorders, and heart disease. The condition very rarely appears in people under 40.

Treatment is painful and taxing, and consists of physical therapy, various medications, massage therapy, hydrodilatation and, in severe cases, surgery. A doctor may also perform manipulation under anesthesia, which breaks up the adhesions and scar tissue in the joint to help restore some range of motion.


Those in bold letters above decribe best the pain I have endured prior my therapy session at Healthway located at The Block building,SM North Edsa.

Let me express my heartfull thanks to those Gentleman and ladies whose name I failed to get who conducted my theraphy. They are really nice and accomodating and good at what they are doing.
Now, with the grace of God I do hope that the little pain I am now suffering will completly go away.

(Above photo source from AAOS).These exercises helps.

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Pldt sim,portable landline

Tuesday, August 19th, 2008

A former co-employee of mine called me up yesterday to inquire if I knew somebody selling this PLDT sim? They are selling it in their area for P300.00 pesos each and still there is no available stock.

Although according to him the amount printed on the sim pack is only P100.00 they are selling it in such a high price. Talking about the law of supply and demand. He needed one for his son who is now working as a car salesman. Then he went on to tell me the benifits of having one as alternate contact number of sales people like his son.

For one, it is prepaid and just needed to load either P300.00 or P600.00 per month according to your need. Incoming calls from landline are free except outgoing calls.This can be used in any open line gsm phone and can be used to text as well. If used outside the area where it is not registered the text feature will be a great help. Wow, no wonder the price is being jack up by these lucky people who were wise enough to invest.

Now I am wondering where have I been for the past two months since this sim was introduced in the market.

Oh yes, we were able to find a stall in Ever Grand Gotesco mall just across our store selling the sim for P250.00. He bought two.

Now Just heard that PLDT people are mad with this development.

Well, let us just wait for other lucrative business that well come up in the near future.

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Child Play,I seldom see

Friday, August 15th, 2008

Playing Marble

Playing Marble


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My Therapy,to put my pain away

Thursday, August 14th, 2008

Theraphy poster

Theraphy poster

My third session

My third session

Here, my nerve is being given an electrical stimulation. The device is being covered by a towel which gives comfort because it is giving me a hot moist pack.
I could say that my therapy is working for the pain were reduced significantly. I can now use my left hand although I can’t use it the way I am using it before.
One thing I have learned is never ignore what your body is telling you.
Bye for now!

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One World One Dream,Beijing 2008 Olympic Games

Friday, August 8th, 2008

The Official Website of the Beijing 2008 Olympic Games August 8-24, 2008 

In a few hours from now the Beijing 2008 Olympic Games will formally start.

With our country’s small contigent of athlete, we are still hoping that somebody can bring home a gold medal (or any medal). Our government and private sector had contirubuted a whopping 15 Million Pesos as bonus money to whoever can bring home that elusive gold medal from the Olympic Game.

If only they alloted this amount of money for their training we could have more confidence with our athletes performance. Ofcourse they are expected to give everything they got in order to win but guts alone without proper training is not complete. Then there is this news that two of our divers are becoming swell headed and now are hard to descipline. Here is wishing that somebody could bring home medals whatever the color is.

Sorry for not updating this site of mine. I am being sidelined by a painfull left shoulder. Sign of Ageing? I am now under going theraphy.

I hate to type using only one hand so pardon my absence. I’ll be back, promise!!!

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